One of the most common problems for many business people is accessing confidence when they need itmost.
And often it surfaces in people who you’d least expect.
Low confidence can creep into even the most successful peoples minds and bodies when under pressure or asked to do something new.
The reason this concerns many people is because we all know that without confidence you freeze.
Even if on the surface everything seems fine with low confidence you can’t not be negatively influencing your ability to perform, be present and be your best self.
Without confidence it’s hard to start new projects, make major decisions and play a bigger game in business and life.
It leads to playing small, staying comfortable, feeling insecure and doubting your abilities.
In business it leads to poor influencing, weak leadership, diminished sales and networking.
Confidence is a choice!
Confidence is not something you either are or aren’t, it’s something that you either choose to access or don’t.
It’s as simple as that.
Forinstance, you’re confident that you can read this article, aren’t you?
You’re confident that you can operate the computer you’re usingright now?
Of course you are!
What about tying your shoe laces?
Brushing your teeth?
Driving your car?
Don’t judge the context of it.
Confidence is aresource that you need to tap-anytime at anyplace.
A famous philosopher once said, “Shit happens.”
So if you’re starting to believe it happens to you more than everyone else then you’ve probably lost your mojo.
Past major negative events may have knocked your confidence for a six along with your self-belief.
The good news is you can reclaim your mojo.
When a client says to me, “I’m not confident”.
I generally reply, “Are you confident of that?”
We can all access it with a little bit of focused will and self-awareness.
So please take a moment as I guide you through a simple process right now to help you see just how easy it to access confidence on demand.
Here’s how you can access confidence right now…
Firstly I want you to take a moment to remember a time when you were totally confident?
Just take a moment to do that and notice how quickly you can.
Just think of atime when you succeeded at something?
It can even be a small win that had a big impact on you.
Of course you can.
And as you remember that moment allow yourself to feel the feelings of being in that moment.
Think only about that moment.
See what you saw.
Think what you thought.
Hear what you heard and…
Feel what you felt.
Be in that moment right now.
Make it real in your mind and your body as if you’re in that moment here
Allow yourself to feel all the feelings and sensations and emotions present in that experience.
And start to notice those feelings rising up within you right now.
And even now you can begin to notice that you are starting to access confidence.
Now keep going.
Turn it up.
Double it again and keep going.
Stay with it!
Feel the confidence, even if just slightly.
Go with it.
If you stay with the process now long enough you’ll be radiating confidence, enthusiasm, total motivation and courage right now.
Let the experience rise up into this moment here and now.
Do this until you feel as confident as you can.
Give yourself a moment.
Now gently turn your attention to the present moment and notice that you are still experiencing pure self-belief and confidence.
Now focus it!
Bring it into your conscious awareness right now.
It’s just that easy!
Now while your confidence is still present for you – harness it!
Right now make a list of 10 future circumstances in which you can allow yourself to access confidence and self-belief in business and life.
Put these on your hit list for the next 30 days and notice how easily you can find your mojo again.
So hopefully this has been really helpful.
This is just one small tip in overcoming the inner obstacles that hold you back from purposeful and profitable success in business and life.
If you’d like to learn more please download my Free PDF 5-Step Formula…
“How to Smash Self Doubt, Play a Bigger Game and Stay True to Your Purpose”
If you feel like you need some one-on-one attention to help you figure this stuff out please go ahead and book yourself in for a Free 20 Minute Strategy Call.
In this call together we’ll help you discover…
1. What’s possible for you in business and life,
2. What your number 1 obstacle to success is, and
3. The 3 action steps you can take now to get moving with clarity, confidence and courage.
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I’ll catch you soon.
Heath “Mojo” Myers